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Jenn Writes

Writing my way through life, one word at a time.

Word Wednesday – All Good Things Must (Eventually) End

July 5, 2017 by koalateagirl

It’s no secret that change is hard for me. I like the familiar, I find comfort in routine. I’m an introvert by every definition of the word so I don’t like big groups of new people so once I’ve joined a social activity, I’m likely to stick to it because the initial investment was so high – I pushed myself out of my comfort zone to join. That said, sticking with something for almost two decades isn’t just the comfort of the familiar – it’s something I genuinely enjoy. There are a few things I’ve been a part of for more than 20 years. One of them is Girl Guiding – I’ve been in it for 30 years now, I started as a Brownie then went through Guides, Pathfinders, Junior Leaders (Senior Branches), and went straight into being a leader.  I love Guiding and can’t see my participation in it ending anytime soon. I’d miss the girls and the adventures, but most of all I would miss the fabulous women I’ve worked with in Guiding.

Rally Day for the 100th anniversary of Guiding in Canada
Rally Day in 2014 at Canada’s Wonderland – Look at all the girls and women there!

Another thing I’ve been involved with for longer than I want to admit (but pushing 20 years) is Argonotes – the Toronto Argonauts’ Band. At least we were the Toronto Argonaut’s Band until 2017. As much as I don’t like change, I’m usually okay with it when it’s a choice I have made, less so when it’s something forced on me. I’ve been in the band since my last year of high school, throughout multiple degrees, some really tough personal times, and some absolutely horrific football teams.  For me, it wasn’t just about football or just about music – it was a combination of the two along with some amazing people. Some of the best friendships I’ve made started in Argonotes and some of my favourite memories are with the band. Now, with your indulgence, I’m going to go through some of my favourite memories with the band.

In 1998 the Argos made it to the Eastern Semi-Final in Montreal – the team invited us to share their via train to Montreal. It was a last minute scramble to make it but I had such a blast. My roommate Ingrid and I weren’t old enough to drink in Ontario but were old enough to drink in Quebec so our beloved Dictator, Steve, told us we couldn’t go into the hotel bar for any reason. We got bored and decided to explore rue Sainte-Catherine, where our hotel was located but Steve was in the hotel bar with other members of the band so we couldn’t let him know where we were going. In retrospect, leaving him a note to say “exploring Ste. Catherine Street, back by morning” probably wasn’t the best choice of words to make him not panic. In our defense, we did not go drinking and were back in our room by 11pm.  Now, I can’t say we didn’t try the special hot chocolate that the vendor near Molson Stadium used to sell spiked with brandy, but when in Rome right?  I was with the band at SkyDome (it will *always* be SkyDome to me) when Pinball took his last run on September 15. 2000 – we played Pinball Wizard for him, and after he retired he became a friend of the band and even played kazoo and drums on occasion. Pinball was the only thing or person that could make us feel safe in Ivor Wynne Stadium – even the Ticats fans loved him enough not to throw stuff at us when he was near.  I went to a number of Labour Day Classic games with Argonotes – and we’d always hear the same refrain from the fans “Argos Suck but we love the Argonotes”.  Inevitably, we’d be asked to play the Ticat Marching song, although we were often the only ones in the crowd who knew the words to our arch-rival’s theme song.

Band jumping in air
Pregame Shenanigans

We played at lots of Argos related events over the years, and more than a few non-Argos related ones. I loved doing Fan Day – it was always a great time and inevitably we’d have a player or player’s kid (or six) come and “join” the band and play. Usually that meant giving them a “hitty stick” and letting them bash on the bass drum or a cowbell. We never played for more than about half an hour but we had a great time and helped make sure everybody else had a great time too. In 2011, we were even asked to be in a TSN commercial celebrating the CFL. We had a ton of fun that day, and many of us took the day off work to be there. We went to as many Grey Cup and Playoff Road games as possible, for a band that is all volunteers and pay their own way to events including hotel and food. In 2010, we traveled to Moncton, New Brunswick for a game. I had the pleasure of driving out with Steve and the equipment you can’t easily put on a plane – namely the bass drum. I don’t remember who won the game but I remember how much fun the whole experience was. We had some players from the Mount Allison University Pep band join us.

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The Argonotes and Mount Allison University Pep Band joined forces. Photo Courtesy Steve Hayman

I think the times when the band felt most appreciated by the team were the years with Keith Pelley as CEO of the team – he loved the band and what we brought to the game day experience. We had a stage in the endzone for a few years – it led to all sorts of fun like the tuba / sousaphones attempting to “catch” balls in the bells of their instrument, the band needing to pay more attention to the game because of wayward balls and players, and seeing players chuckle at some of our musical jokes. We all used to groan at Steve’s jokes, but I think those are one of the things I’m going to miss most. Playing “Hold that Tiger” when the Argos got a holding penalty against the Ticats, “The Lion Sleeps Tonight” when we played BC, “Green Acres” when Saskatchewan was in town, “Alouette” for Montreal, and “Winnipeg the Pooh” (AKA the Winnie the Pooh theme song) when the Blue Bomber’s players were being introduced. It wasn’t just the opposing teams we took aim at – when a challenge flag was thrown, we’d launch into the theme from Jeopardy. Whenever Keith Pelley walked by we’d show him our appreciation by playing “Sharp Dressed Man” by ZZ Top. When the Argos’ kicker was Noel Prefontaine, we’d play “The First Noel” in his honour whenever he kicked a single. We even attempted to learn Hawaii 5-0 for Chad Owens. If there was a musical gag or pun possible, we’d go for it with gusto.

What a lot of fans, and assuredly the current Argos management, don’t realize was that we were a dedicated group of volunteers. Many of us drove hours to get to the games, regularly coming from as far west as Kitchener-Waterloo, as far east as Oshawa, and as far north as northern York Region. We all paid dues to cover the expenses but Steve kicked in his own money more often than he should have. We bought our own jerseys and jackets.  Steve bought us some wonderfully underappreciated bucket hats one year. I still have mine. On game days, the band would meet 1.5-2 hours before kick off, play around the stadium (at the Dome that meant going from our meeting spot at Front and Simcoe to a few bars and restaurants along Front street, then doing a circuit around the stadium before going in), interact with fans, let any kids around look at / test our instruments (especially the drums), and head into the stadium. We’d play during breaks in play for the fans in and around us, play once or twice for the in-stadium cameras, and wander around the stadium playing for different groups of fans. We had fans who would always request the same tunes from us and would seek us out to come and play for a birthday or other special occasion. Immediately after the game, we’d head out and play at gate 2 for 20ish minutes and amassed pretty good crowds, win or lose. Year after year we’d see the same fans in our gate 2 postgame concerts, and I lost count of how many times I heard after a particularly bad loss “Well the game sucked but thank goodness for Argonotes”. When we won, we would often play (and sing) “Argos Rule the CFL”,”You Ain’t Seen Nothing Yet”, and “Go Toronto Argos Go  Go Go”.  For the first few years of my Argonotes experience, when we lost we’d break out “Always Look on the Bright Side of Life” by Monty Python but that was replaced by “Heartbreak Hotel” later on (providing we had enough saxaphones).  We had choreography for some numbers in our post-game shows – it didn’t always work, but we always tried to be as entertaining as possible for everyone. Especially if it was a stinker of a game, we’d go out of our way to make sure people left with a good memory. Steve would step aside and let anyone who wanted to conduct the band. You’d think it would screw us up to have random people waving their hands at us, but we generally didn’t pay that much attention to Steve so having someone different waving their hands at us didn’t throw us off at all. We were a part of thousands of fans’ gameday experiences – but not a part of the team’s plans anymore.

the band plays outside gate 2
Gate 2 postgame

One last favourite memory, although I haven’t come anywhere close to describing all of the amazing times I’ve had with Argonotes. In 2004 the Argos made it to the Grey Cup. We didn’t have tickets for the game but somehow Steve found out that there was a room in the recesses of the stadium where we could watch the game. We were having a blast at the event – Grey Cups are always a ton of fun – we love the Spirit of Edmonton room and they love us even if Steve has to remind us not to drink the “orange juice” when we play at the breakfast on Saturday morning (mostly because we always have a full day of playing ahead and the orange juice is never just orange juice there). Midway through the 4th quarter, Steve notices the Mounties are gathering at the front of our little room with the Grey Cup. Of course we all crowded around to get a better look – which was allowed providing we didn’t touch the shiny trophy and get our fingerprints all over it. As the time ran out, the Mounties prepared to take the trophy on the field and it was then that Argonotes taught a very important lesson. If you look and act like you belong somewhere, nobody will question you. And that, my friends, is how the Argonotes came to be on the field celebrating the 2004 Grey Cup victory much to everybody involved with the team’s surprise.

 

Which brings me to my Word Wednesday word. I’m trying very hard to get to the “Don’t cry because it’s over, Smile because it happened” stage but I’m not there yet. I’m mourning the loss of this extension of myself. It is an end, but not necessarily the end.  I’m not 100% sure what is coming next for myself or the Argonotes other than we’re reuniting for one game on July 24th to celebrate the 1996 and 1997 Argonaut teams that won the Grey Cup. Back then, Argonotes was in its infancy; now it’s at an end.  To all of the people I’ve met through the band (especially Steve Hayman who gave Argonotes so much of his time, energy, money, and passion), from the bottom of my heart THANK YOU. There’s nobody I’d rather play 15B while watching a game with.

 

END

End (end) noun

  1. A final part of something, especially a period of time, an activity, or a story.
  2. The furthest or most extreme part or point of something.
  3. Something incomplete, fragmentary, or undersized.

 

 

Filed Under: Grammar, Life Tagged With: Argonauts, Argonotes, Argos, CFL, Football, guiding, Music, Pinball, Toronto, Wednesday, Word Wednesday

Outdoor Football in Toronto – Thoughts at Midseason

August 26, 2016 by koalateagirl

I’ve been an Argos fan since I was born. I’m old enough to remember watching games at the old Exhibition Stadium on the CNE grounds, and of course the Skydome era.  I’m the first to admit that the Skydome wasn’t a great place to watch football. There were some seats where you got a good view of the game but others that were definitely not as good. I’ve heard purists say that there are no good indoor football stadiums. Those people have obviously never visited Ford Field in Detroit. Ford Field was built for football. Yes it also hosts concerts and other events but its primary reason for existence is football. I’ve sat in the cheapest seats available and still had a great view of the field. So it can be done, but wasn’t done at Skydome (and no, I won’t call it Rogers Centre). Interestingly, my Dad had seasons tickets with a large group of people at Exhibition Stadium, but when the team moved to Skydome for the 1989 season, the great tickets he’d had at Exhibition Stadium turned into obstructed by players seats because of the shallow slant of the seats and the habit football players have of spreading out along the sideline. They were also decidedly worse seats for more money – the tickets at Exhibition Stadium were on the 45 yard line, south (open) side, about 1/3 of the way up. These new ones were on the 25 yard line and only a couple of rows up. (For the following seasons there would be tarps over those seats because you couldn’t watch the game from them). He and other members of his section spent the better part of the season arguing with the team about the seats and eventually most of them just gave up their tickets, my dad included – his entire row gave them up at the same time and nobody at the Argos ever apologized or tried to get the fans back.

 

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Ignore the goalpost in the middle of the shot but those are the tarps covering where the tickets were

I managed to convince him to take me to at least a game a season after that, but he was never as into football as I was after that. I would have surpassed him eventually in my love of football, but it happened more quickly than expected because he felt that he (and all of the others in our section) got a raw deal. That said, that was a very different era for the CFL and goodness knows how many owners ago for the Argos. When moving to BMO field was first brought up, I first worried that other season ticketholders would be in the same predicament we were in in 1989, but then realized that the new Argos staff with their focus on customer service and fan enjoyment wouldn’t let that happen again; so then I started thinking about outside football.

A little background: I’ve been a member of Argonotes (the official band of the Toronto Argonauts) for my entire adult life – joining while I was still in high school and continuing through University and Grad School and beyond. I mostly play piccolo though I’ve been increasingly pressed into service with the percussion section. Woodwind instruments aren’t a great mix with rain or snow and heat can throw them out of tune too so I was a little concerned with the proposed move. Also I’m a wuss and have a complexion that I can only describe as Irish meets Vampire. I don’t tan well, I burn easily, and I wear UPF 50+ clothing and sunscreen year round. So sitting in the sun watching the game could go anywhere from “this is the coolest thing ever” to “I’m going to spontaneously combust”.   I was hoping for the former, but got the latter at the first game. So I upped my sunscreen game and the next game went much better.

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BMO Field has some spectacular sunset views.

Almost bursting into flames aside, I LOVE outdoor football. BMO field is a truly enjoyable place to watch a game, I haven’t managed to find a bad seat yet (though I am intrigued by the blue squishy seats), and there’s actual tailgating again!  There was tailgating in Toronto once upon a time when there were parking lots near the Dome instead of the crop of condos that went up over the past decade, but those went the way of the dodo as the condo boom happened. Now, tailgating is back in Toronto. Most games have two separate tailgate locations – one in the Ontario Place Parking lot and one at the Shipyard that is close to the Princes’ Gates in front of the newly built (or still under construction) Hotel X. The one over at Ontario Place is restricted access but the Shipyard is open for all the fans when it’s running (which unfortunately it isn’t during the CNE games).  Both locations have food for sale, and cheap beer ($4 for an ice cold Ontario craft beer!) and in the Ontario Place location there are plenty of families with portable grills and people throwing around a football. Oh and you’ll see Argonotes at both tailgates (weather and energy permitting).

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Look at those Blue Seats – they look like they’re for a ride!

The atmosphere inside the game is different too- there’s a lot of energy, and a lot of noise – and not just from the band. My only complaint with the gameday experience is that the piped in music over the loudspeaker is unreasonably loud – to the point that you can’t carry on a conversation with the person sitting next to you over it. When the PA announcer asks the fans to get loud, the endzone (where the band sits) responds – they stomp on the metal risers and hit the back of the seat in front of them and generally make as much noise as possible. It’s a lively experience, and one that I’ve experienced in other CFL cities but felt was missing in Toronto.  Do they need to get more bodies in the seats? Yes, for sure, but that’s not something that’s going to happen immediately, especially with the Argos having such a tough time winning on home turf.

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How nice is that turf?  And the view?  Scoreboard deliberately not included

This season was complicated by an awkward schedule – hopefully the last of its kind, necessitated by the renovations at BMO field taking longer than planned and pushing the primary tenant (TFC) out for the first part of their season which has meant that there are some weird gamedays still (though I quite enjoyed the CFL’s version of Monday Night Football) which should be resolved next season. There are a few home games left this season to impress the hometown fans, and I hope the Argos take full advantage of them and that Torontonians come out and experience a game before dismissing the CFL as an entertainment option. Because that’s what it is – an affordable entertainment option. The ticket prices, unlike those of most of the other professional teams in the city allow for a family to go to a game without spending the equivalent of a car payment on tickets. Make no mistake, there ARE CFL fans in Toronto – there are enough of them to mostly fill BMO field most games. So long as the on-field product is worth going to see. The only team in this city that gets fans out consistently while not being competitive plays at the other MLSE-owned building in town.

Filed Under: Life, Sports Tagged With: Argonauts, Argonotes, Argos, band, BMO Field, CFL, CNE, Detroit Lions, Exhibition Stadium, Football, Ford Field., NFL, Skydome, Toronto

Saying Goodbye to SkyDome

November 6, 2015 by koalateagirl

Tonight is the end of an era, albeit one that many Toronto sports fans (particularly CFL fans) have struggled with over the last 27 years.  Tonight the Toronto Argonauts play their last game at the Rogers Centre (formerly – and forever to me –  known as SkyDome). I was at the first game at SkyDome on July 12, 1989, and I will be there tonight at the last game.  In between those dates I’ve seen around 70% of the Canadian football games played there (including Vanier Cups and Metro Bowl finals but not including the Bills in Toronto series or the NCAA games). I’ve been feeling nostalgic today and reading some of the articles about the best memories at SkyDome including this one by the very talented Andrew Bucholtz, Mike Hogan’s trip down memory lane, and this one from the Toronto Star that focuses on Michael “Pinball” Clemons’ memories of the stadium where he played his entire CFL career and still calls home as Vice Chairman of the Argos.

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Filed Under: Life, Sports Tagged With: Argonauts, Argonotes, Argos, band, Blue Jays, CFL, Doug Flutie, Football, Grey Cup, Memories, Pinball, Pinball Clemons, Rickey Foggie, Rocket Ismail, Rogers Centre, Skydome, Sports, Toronto

Thoughts on She’s Connected 2012

October 24, 2012 by koalateagirl

In case you haven’t noticed, I’ve been blogging over at my other blog Adventures with my BlackBerry for the last few months.  I’m going to have another wrap up there but from the technological side of things – how my BlackBerry helped me make connections and made my conference experience more enjoyable.  This is more about the experience I had at She’s Connected (or SCCTO which was the twitter hashtag for the event), what I learned, and the great people I met.

Overall, I had a great time at She’s Connected.  The getting up at the crack of dawn wasn’t something I was looking forward to but I had great carpool with Courtney and Jacki and not only did we get to the hotel an hour before the conference breakfast was supposed to start, the fabulous people at the Renaissance Hotel were able to check us into our room super early (at 7am) so that we didn’t have to come back later and check in or try to do it after the conference when we were tired etc.  I have to say that the Renaissance is a fabulous hotel, and I wish I’d spent more than just one night there!   I’d go back for Grey Cup in the blink of an eye but it’s definitely out of my price range!

I learned a lot about myself at the conference.  I learned I can be funny and witty in real life even with strangers and when I’m scared to death that I’ll say something stupid and they will write me off as a moron.  I learned that mink eyelashes are pretty cool and very dramatic but take a long time to get used to.  I learned that having a professional do a blow out on my hair leads to the same result as me doing one – flat hair in less than an hour!  Not that the stylist from Blo wasn’t really good, but my hair is stupid that way.  It looked fabulous for the hour, but then it was just messy and full of product.   I learned that I really get a kick out of people complementing me on my business cards (which were super fabulous thanks to Lindsay from Grace Announcements).

The sessions were amazing.  It’s impossible to pick just one to single out as the best.  One of the best part of the sessions was that the panelists and speakers were more than willing to meet and speak with the attendees after the panels.  There were 2 time slots in which I couldn’t find a session that I really wanted to attend, one on Friday and one on Saturday.  This worked out pretty well because it gave me a chance to hang out in the McCafe lounge and get my nails painted and enjoy a chair massage.  On Friday I got to hang out in the Molson 67 lounge and learn about pairing Beer and Cheese.  This was really awesome and I’m never going back to wine and cheese again.

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Beer and cheese = nature’s perfect pairing.

I learned a lot about trying to find a niche in the overcrowded world of online writing, editing and social media.  I got some awesome advice from awesome people.  I got to meet people with whom I’ve been tweeting and BBMing for over a year (I’m looking at you Christy and Christine).  I learned that if I love blogging (and I do) I should keep doing it.  That getting a chance at a community manager position isn’t as impossible a dream as I thought it would be and that some brands and agencies are okay with paying bloggers.

I missed the Friday ’80s Party because I wanted to go watch the Argos Lose Argo game and play with the Argonotes.  I love playing with the best band in the CFL.  Even when the team loses, we get to go out and entertain thousands of people.  I did, however, stick around for the Shades of Grey party on Saturday night.  There’s not a lot to say about that Party other than wow.  I got gel nail polish put on – it’s supposed to last 2 weeks and so far it’s lasted through me digging in sand and typing so I’m impressed.  The food was delicious!  It’s A Cake Thing made some of the best cookies and cupcakes that I’ve ever had!  They looked as good as they tasted.

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The Shades of Grey Cupcakes

All in all it was a great 2 days.  I’m glad it was only 2 days because I was exhausted at the end of the party.  I know I’ve missed some wonderful people and things in this wrap up but the point is, it was a great experience and I can’t wait to go again next year.

Filed Under: Life, Sports Tagged With: Argonotes, Argos, band, Beer Fairy, BlackBerry, Blo, Bloggers, Bold, Bold 9900, CFL, Conferences, connections, Cupcakes, football, Grace Announcements, ilashme, lounge, McCafe, McDonalds, Mink, Molson 67, panels, Playbook, Renaissance Hotel, Rogers Centre, SCCTO, sessions, Shades of grey, She's Connected, Toronto

The Good, the Bad, and the Argos

September 3, 2011 by koalateagirl

I’m not going to play armchair GM at 2 am the morning after a loss.  Especially after a home game where I didn’t see all of the game because I was playing in the band.  Yes the Argos played badly, no I don’t have a magic fix to make the season all better.  It wasn’t just one thing or one player that made the team lose, it was a number of factors working together.  It’s really easy to lay the blame at the feet of a single player but football is a team sport.  Part of the Argos’ trouble seems to be an inability to deal with unexpected changes such as a key player going down to injury.  If left to their own game plan, the Argos seem to be a decent (Not spectacular) team; but when a monkey wrench is thrown into the works, such as Rob Murphy’s injury this week or Kevin Eiben’s injury a few weeks ago, the team collapses in on itself.  I think it goes back to confidence and the Argos seem to be lacking in it.  When everything is carefully scripted, they’re fine but going off script is disastrous because the players are worried that in doing so they’ll make a mistake.  The most dangerous thing to be in football is cautious – it’s also the most boring!   There’s nothing worse than a team playing to not lose.  I can root for a losing team, but not a boring team.  Other than some spectacular special teams plays by Chad Owens. the Argos were boring tonight  There was a lot of potential to not be boring  – there was a great string of 1st downs in the first quarter but then the drive ended with a rather anti-climatic field goal.  Turnovers were not capitalized on, turning an exciting event into nothing.  Again I’m not sure how to fix it but I’m hoping one of the coaches on the Argos does.

Even with the loss, the Argo game was fun tonight.  That’s the best thing about being in Argonotes – even when the team on the field is less than entertaining, the band is always awesome.  At halftime tonight, we did our usual show – 4 or 5 songs to a small but loyal crowd by gate 5.  As we were playing our first song, I noticed 2 little girls dancing along to the band.  I went over to our director Dictator’s big bag o’ musical toys and dug out a tambourine and gave it to the girls.  The look on their face was of pure delight.  They shook it together and were generally adorable.   Their dad took some pictures and the girls were having a great time.  For the next song, I asked the girls if they wanted to play WITH the band.  Our fantastic bass drummer Tyler came in front of the band and let the younger girl “help” play the bass drum and the older girl got to play the tambourine in front of the band, wearing the Dictators furry blue hat.  The looks of joy on their faces made my whole night.  To make things even better, when I was walking around the Dome after our half-time show, I saw the family.  The girls came up to me and thanked me and then the older one went to call her mum and was eagerly telling her about being IN the band.  The grandmother told me that we had made their night extra special and that they’d remember it for a long time.Thinking about that makes me put the loss in perspective.  The Argos may not have won, but this Argonote sure did.

Filed Under: Sports Tagged With: Argonotes, Argos, boring, CFL, Football, Fun, injury, Kevin Eiben, kids, Lions, losses, Music, Rob Murphy, Sports

Assorted Pictures

Jenn Writes Logo. An old fashioned typewriter with an cartoon owl next to it.
A tea cup with white and pink flowers on it full of tea
Lovely little tea cup… the teapot filled it 5 times
A picture of BMO field at twilight with the words "Every New Beginning Comes from Some Other Beginning's End
A curving road with trees with bright fall leaves on either side
The long and winding road

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